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Can I marry without my parents' consent?
112 fatawa in the archive answer questions on this, from 6 South African Darul Iftas (Ask Imaam, Mufti Online, Ibn Masood, Jamiat KZN, Azaadville, MJC). Below, each Darul Ifta’s answer is quoted word for word from the opening of one of its fatawa.
Based on the fatawa linked below. Please read the sources and double-check with a Darul Ifta for your situation.
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What the Darul Iftas say
“In the absence of a close male family member to act as your Wali (guardian) it is permitted to appoint another as your Wakeel (representative) for your Nikah. Accordingly, it will be in order to appoint your mother’s sister’s husband to be your Wakeel. Two additional witnesses will be required in addition to the Wakeel.”
“In principle, an adult girl has an independent right to get married according to her wish. She does not require the consent of her Wali. If the Nikah was conducted in the presence of two male witnesses or one male and two female witnesses, then the Nikah will be valid”
“1. In principle, the father of the bride should be appointed as the Wali.[Re: Fataawa Uthmaaniyah Vol.5 Pg.193 Vol.4] 2. Any person may be appointed as a witness as long as he is Muslim, mature, free (not a slave) and of understanding (not insane).”
“The wali of the Mayyit will be the father (except in the case where the son is more knowledgeable than the father). In the absence of the father, the son will be the wali. Thereafter, the male descendants of the mayyit in sequence e.g. grandson, great grandson and so on.”
Quotes are the opening words of each answer as published; the full answer, its conditions and references are on the fatwa page. Answers depend on the exact details of each question.
Read the fatawa
- Nikaah of Female Without A Wali PresentIbn Masood · 12 Jul 2024
- Getting married without a waliMufti Online · 30 Jan 2024
- Appointing a Wakeel for Nikah in the absence of a WaliJamiat KZN · 10 Aug 2023
- Nikah without a WaliAsk Imaam · 19 Sep 2022
- Wali (Representative) Of The BrideAzaadville · 24 Feb 2022
- Is Nikāḥ Valid Without a Wali?MJC · 3 Jun 2025
- Wali of a brideIbn Masood · 2 May 2024
- Calling someone a waliMufti Online · 7 Aug 2023
- Is Hajj Fardh on the Wali of a woman who has the financial means?Jamiat KZN · 24 Jun 2019
- Do I have the right to get married without the consent of my wali?Ask Imaam · 2 Jun 2020
- Getting Married Without The Permission Of The WaliAzaadville · 6 May 2021
- Marriage Without The Father’s ConsentIbn Masood · 8 Aug 2024
- Asking a deceased wali to make dua for oneselfMufti Online · 7 Aug 2023
- Does the Hanafi School encourage marriage without the guardian’s (wali) approval?Jamiat KZN · 11 Sep 2017
- Who is the wali of the mayyitMufti Online · 8 Apr 2013
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