Asalam Walikum, I am 21 and i am married to a 31 year old man. After 2 weeks of our marriage he had stopped making love to me. He doesn't have a reason. We are now 4 months into our marriage

· 23 Dhuʻl-Hijjah 1422 AH1 min readFatwa 5120English

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Asalam Walikum, I am 21 and i am married to a 31 year old man. After 2 weeks of our marriage he had stopped making love to me. He doesn't have a reason. We are now 4 months into our marriage

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Nikah is a relationship built on mutual understanding and trust.

You should, therefore, try your utmost to win over his confidence to explain to you the reason for his actions. You should also explain to him your feelings and what your desires are. Adopt a different method of seducing him and enticing him to make love to you. Also engage yourself in excessive Du' aa and give out some Sadaqaat (charity).

and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best

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