What place should the feelings of Patriotism and Nationalism have in a Muslim?Can a Muslim feel proud to be a citizen of his country and take part in Independence celebrations, etc.?

You are writing from the US, hence, we assume you are referring to the independence day of the US.

The US government is at open war with Islam and the Muslims. To honour their symbols, and revere their celebrations is not only Haraam, there is fear that such an act will cause the participant to denounce his Imaan. Such a person may have difficulty in reciting the Kalimah at the time of death.

and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best

Moulana Imraan Vawda
FATWA DEPT.

CHECKED AND APPROVED CORRECT: Mufti Ebrahim Desai