Is there any dua for a woman whose husband doesn't fulfil her sexually (no foreplay ect),who can she reveal these frusturations to, without getting sin for revealing bedroom secrets?

· 13 Jumada II 1424 AH1 min readFatwa 9326English

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Is there any dua for a woman whose husband doesn't fulfil her sexually (no foreplay ect),who can she reveal these frusturations to, without getting sin for revealing bedroom secrets?

Answer

You may seek advice without going into the intricate details in a suitable manner. Maa shaa Allah, that you have taken the step forward to improve your life with Deen?s advice.

Firstly, it would help if you have an understanding relationship with your husband. There could also be many reasons for your husband?s lack of foreplay, like problematic relationship, inferiority complex, lack of understanding of a woman?s need to be satisfied, etc.

However, to begin on a positive note: Try creating a warm and romantic atmosphere, aromatherapy, oib/candles, etc. Encourage him by loving conversations, enlightening his positive qualities and direct him to what you enjoy, even in what fulfils you, your encouraging sensitive responses. And encourage him and appreciate him with even if the slightest, smallest, improvement of what you enjoyed. This will be a start to building an enjoyable and pleasant relationship, Insha Allah.

Also, supplicate to Allah Ta?ala?s your needs and read them Du?aa before intercourse, ?Bismillaahi, Allaahumma jannibis-shaytaana maa razaqatanaa? (In the name of Allah, O Allah, keep the devil away from what you have blessed us with).

May Allah Ta?ala remove your difficulties and increase your love for each other, Aameen.

and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best

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