Financial Obligation On Wife

Jurists explain that it is the duty of the husband to provide the wife with food, clothing and shelter, and not vice versa.

In fact, some of the jurists have stipulated seven things, viz; roti or bread, curry, items required for her adornment and beautification, clothing, necessary furniture and goods for the house, accommodation, and if the wife is from such a family that has access to a domestic worker, then a helper too. [Re: Fataawa Uthmaaniyyah Vol:6 Pg:391]

As such, you may kindly inform him that it is not your responsibility to financially support yourself and your children.