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Premarital relationship

· 15 Shaʻban 1436 AH1 min readEnglish

Question

I love a guy and he loves me too. Our parents know about it but my father has no problem. Even his family likes me. Only my mom has a problem with our relation. I did ishtekhara even my mom did and the answer was yes. How do I convince my mom. Please give me some wazifa. I can't live without that guy. I feel like committing suicide.

Answer

Immediately break off this haraam relationship. All types of premarital relationships are haraam. If both of you are interested in marrying then let your parents decide, and be happy with the decision that they make.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

Answered by
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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