Marital problems

· 4 Rabiʻ I 1437 AH1 min readEnglish

Question

My mother often spoke some harsh things to my wife. I came to know these things from my wife later. What should I do in this case? As far as I know I can't not tell my mom that you are doing wrong. Please tell what should I do?

2. I and my wife decided that my Sala (wife's brother) will remain with me , but my mother told me don't do this. This is a wrong decision. In this case, what should I do?

Answer

1. I suggest that you comfort your wife and ask her to ignore these types of statements.

2. If your wife feels comfortable with this then don't stop this as long your sala's ways are right.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

Answered by
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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