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Marital problems

· 19 Shawwal 1438 AH1 min readEnglish

Question

I am unable to adjust with my in-laws. The moment I decide to have a family feeling they taunt me for my work done and my mom's family related to dowry. I don't want to have any hard feelings on them please suggest me Islamic way to deal my relationship with them and my husband. Going to be a mother soon please suggest me some things to do to have a obedient child.

Answer

Don't become too closely attached. Show respect and mahabbat for the short duration that you are with them.

Recite a lot of durood shareef, Surah Yaseen and observe all the requirements of taqwa. Make salaatul haajah and beg Allah Ta`ala with the following du`aa:

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

References (Arabic / Urdu sources)

رَبِّ هَبْ لِي مِن لَّدُنْكَ ذُرِّيَّةً طَيِّبَةً

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Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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