Discussing one's sins with others

· 7 Shaʻban 1439 AH1 min readEnglish

Question

I understand that it is a sin to discuss one's sin with a friend due to it showing a lack of shame. What if I am the one who hasn't committed the sin, but it's my friend that is talking about matters that relates to his sins with me? How should I handle these conversations despite already trying to give da'wah? Do I get sins also for indulging or contributing to this conversation since it might be displeasing to Allah?

Answer

If he is relating it with remorse and for seeking help then refer him to someone or a shaykh who is experienced. He may be able to assist him.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

Answered by
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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