Intimacy with one's wife

· 6 Safar 1435 AH1 min readEnglish

Question

Is it permissible for the husband to rub the clitoris (the small sensitive organ above the opening of the urethra, which is homologous to the penis) of his wife until she has sexual climax?

Answer

Yes, provided she is not in haidh. In the state of haidh the husband should refrain from touching the area below the navel till the knee.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

References (Arabic / Urdu sources)

فيجوز الاستمتاع بالسرة وما فوقها والركبة وما تحتها ولو بلا حائل وكذا بما بينهما بحائل بغير الوطء ولو تلطخ دما ( رد المحتار 1/292)

Answered by
Mufti Zakaria Makada
Checked & approved by
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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