Pleasing the husband

· 8 Dhuʻl-Hijjah 1435 AH1 min readEnglish

Question

1. Is it wrong for me to get upset with my husband if he only takes me to the haram for a few hours, where I'd like to spend more time?

2. Would this be regarded as waswasah if it is wrong?

3. If it's waswasah what should I do or read?

Answer

Undoubtedly performing tawaaf in the haram is greatly rewarding in the sight of Allah Ta'ala. However for the wife to please her husband is even more rewarding. Hence, (apart from the time your husband takes you to the haram to perform tawaaf) if your husband asks you to remain in your hotel room, then you should obey him.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

Answered by
Mufti Zakaria Makada
Checked & approved by
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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