Can a son in-law go in the grave to bury the mother in-law?

Published as Son in-law going into the grave to bury the mother in-law

· 26 Rabiʻ II 1436 AH1 min readEnglish

Question

Can a son in-law go in the grave to bury the mother in-law?

Answer

Yes

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

References (Arabic / Urdu sources)

وذو الرحم المحرم أولى بإدخال المرأة ثم ذو الرحم غير المحرم ثم الصالح من مشايخ جيرانها ثم الشبان الصلحاء ولا يدخل أحد من النساء القبر ولا يخرجهن إلا الرجال (مراقي الفلاح ص609)

وذو الرحم المحرم أولى بإدخال المرأة من غيرهم كذا في الجوهرة النيرة (القتاوى الهندية 1/ 166)

Answered by
Mufti Zakaria Makada
Checked & approved by
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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