Sister Fadila

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Fatawa

1. Inferiority ComplexAsk Imaam · 27 Jan 2014
2. I was a Hindu. I am in love with a Musim boy for the past 6 yearsAsk Imaam · 13 Mar 2012
3. Before we married I told my husband I wanted a child/children inshallah and he agreed. After marriage he made me take oral contraception even though it clearly gave me migraines..Ask Imaam · 13 Mar 2012
4. My mother doesn't want to stay in America because of the effect the environment has on our imaan. My father can't settle down anywhere except America.Ask Imaam · 10 Mar 2012
5. I got married on my own meaning. I got married with my wifes parents approval. my family shows hatred and disapproval.Ask Imaam · 10 Mar 2012
6. He promised to marry me if our parents agreed. But now his parents rejected me and we have had physical relations.Ask Imaam · 29 Feb 2012
7. I am resubmittig my question as I'm not sure if it had come through last time. I am a young Muslim woman 24 years of age and I'm going through alot of difficulty, I feel as if I am in constant battle with myself with being a good person.Ask Imaam · 26 Oct 2011
8. My fiance came back from the holiday she revealed to me that she regrets making a big mistake. She told me that she got drunk and committed zina with the guy. What do I do?Ask Imaam · 7 Jul 2011
9. What should I do know? I really love her madly I am not able to forget herAsk Imaam · 7 Jul 2011
10. He asked me to severe all my family ties and marry him if I truly love him. I do sincerely love him, but I know that it is not right to break family ties and it is forbidden in Islam. Kindly adviseAsk Imaam · 7 Jul 2011
11. I have recently started a job but I find it to be very demanding and stressful. My job also involves meeting clients wih mental illnesses whilst I'm alone. Is there any dua that I can recite before going to meet the client alone, that will keep me safe?Ask Imaam · 13 Jun 2011
12. My parents dont get along and my dad is involved in a Haraam relationshipAsk Imaam · 8 Jun 2011
13. Is it Islamic for a muslim woman to rain curses or abuse her husband whenever they have argument?Ask Imaam · 5 Jun 2011
14. I was madly in love with him then i came to know of his bad pastAsk Imaam · 5 Jun 2011
15. I am ashamed of myself and in state what to do or what not. I have done many a time Istakhara but have not got any reply infact the night when i read salat-i-istakhara i sleep so soundly that i dont even now when it is morning.Ask Imaam · 11 May 2011
16. I am sunni Muslim loving a Non Muslim Brahmin girl, We loved past four years, our love start from our college.I feel guilty I thinks I lost her life and happiness what thauba I have to do to come out from this ghunaa please help me.Ask Imaam · 4 May 2011
17. My husband is loving and caring, but when it comes to the topic of salah he intentionally neglects it. And if I keep on advising him on salah and remind him he get angry about it.Ask Imaam · 2 May 2011
18. I committed Zina and i feel very about what i didAsk Imaam · 2 May 2011
19. Am i allowed to work as a Doctor whilst donning the Niqab?Ask Imaam · 29 Mar 2008
20. I have been married 2 years with my husband and we have two children together. it was a love marriage.Ask Imaam · 13 Dec 2007
21. I had a secret marriage no one is accepting and my husband also doesnt understand me at all.Ask Imaam · 11 Dec 2007
22. Is a husband allowed to raise his voice to his wife when angry and assume that its okay because it is the way he does things.Ask Imaam · 26 Nov 2007
23. I have recently decided to try and change my dressing to Abbayas and Jubas and now wear my scarf properly, i have noticed how thisAsk Imaam · 21 Nov 2007
24. After sleeping with my wife when should gusal be performed, immediately after or can it be done, a few hours later, before fajar.... As a child age around 12 my father used to beat my mother regularly, ...Ask Imaam · 10 Nov 2007
25. How to be fair with my parents and wife?Ask Imaam · 7 Aug 2007
26. Why is it so hard for Muslim girls of south asian background to get married?Ask Imaam · 24 Jul 2007
27. This question has been kept private..Ask Imaam · 24 Jul 2007
28. Your question has been kept privateAsk Imaam · 19 Jun 2007
29. Is watching phonography (xxx) movies with ones husband acceptable? Please clarify, thanks.Ask Imaam · 23 May 2007
30. Is it Ok to have a boyfriend for three years and marry him secretly?Ask Imaam · 17 May 2007
31. Last year may my wife told me she wanted a divorce, she never really gave me many good reasons and all seem more like excuses to me..Should I keep nikah?Ask Imaam · 30 Apr 2007
32. I'm a 19 yr old girl and my biggest fear in life is that I'm going to end up not being married.Ask Imaam · 30 Apr 2007
33. She stopped wearing niqaab now, and she left her family and now does a lot of bad things like have a boyfriendAsk Imaam · 30 Apr 2007
34. I am a young girl living in Western Culture. I can’t say that I am lesbian or not, but I have been always of a mind towards women from my childhoodAsk Imaam · 18 Sep 2006
35. I would like to know if it is acceptable in Islam if the elders always use harsh comments in a threatening manner towards children to get any work done.Ask Imaam · 31 Aug 2006
36. I moved to the US and have not been working due to the requirement of doing residency which will involve me to remove my purdah (i.e. moving the veil), but that is only for 3 yearsAsk Imaam · 1 May 2006
37. She masturbates and she has been trying to stop for a while, now she does it less. when she does, she arouses, does she need to do ghusl everytime and if she just thinks about bad stuff,Ask Imaam · 30 Mar 2006
38. i have been marred for about 7 months but haven't had sex yet, because my husband can't perform, he has the evil) on on us. how long can i stay with him?Ask Imaam · 30 Mar 2006
39. What are the obligations towards the biological and the step father?Ask Imaam · 30 Mar 2006
40. my mother and father in law and husband keep playing tricks and constantly doing black magic on me. My in-laws want to take control all the timeAsk Imaam · 22 Mar 2006
41. wife finds three more for her husbandAsk Imaam · 22 Mar 2006
42. pious children struggling with parentsAsk Imaam · 22 Mar 2006
43. regards to how I need to behave in front of my fatherAsk Imaam · 16 Mar 2006
44. recently i came across a book called the destraction of television. and some of the stories in there really scared me.Ask Imaam · 27 Feb 2006
45. I have question with regards to parent(s)/child relationshipAsk Imaam · 23 Feb 2006
46. I dont wish to marry and i am satisifed with what God written to me, i am doing my best to protect myself and be a good girl. Am i doing anything haram?Ask Imaam · 6 Feb 2006
47. My cousin has been dating this boy for a while. His family has reverted to Islam 16 years ago and he says they are practiscingy Muslims. They still use their non Muslim names as their IdsAsk Imaam · 4 Jan 2006
48. my wife and i dont get on at all. Our marriage has been plagued with probs from the day her parents started to get involved in silly little quabblesAsk Imaam · 4 Jan 2006
49. My husband's parents treat me like dirt. This has been going on for 7 years. I don't speak to or visit them anymore. Can i stop my children from seeing them?Ask Imaam · 13 Dec 2005
50. Does everything God chose for us in this world is for our own good???Ask Imaam · 24 Sep 2005
51. is this a test from allah swt? i want to belive but how can i get my faith back???Ask Imaam · 23 Sep 2005
52. privateAsk Imaam · 23 Sep 2005
53. My wife is insisting that I buy her a tv just for cartoon and news channel. Can I do that?Ask Imaam · 15 Sep 2005
54. How does a man propose to a woman?Ask Imaam · 15 Sep 2005
55. What should I do for this feeling of emptiness that just doesn\'t go away?Ask Imaam · 15 Sep 2005
56. friend got married (nikah ceremony) in Pakistan this year July. Now she has returned home and is having another 'wedding ceremony' without nikahAsk Imaam · 15 Sep 2005
57. I have a relative who always have marriage problem. She always argue with the husband and uses vulgar wordsAsk Imaam · 14 Sep 2005
58. Should I marry my fiancee or not? Is it bad that my fiancée is very sure that he can marry me but I am confused.Ask Imaam · 14 Sep 2005
59. Im in a realtionship with a guy & have been for the last 4 months.Ask Imaam · 14 Sep 2005
60. What are the actual affects of watchin pornographic movies & picturesAsk Imaam · 13 Sep 2005
61. I have not been to the mosque in a while, and if I go it may be to see the imam and another friend.Ask Imaam · 6 Sep 2005
62. She and her boyfriend have committed zinaa and in the event she fell pregnant. She then had an abortion at 2monthsAsk Imaam · 1 Sep 2005
63. I could not help thinking how her mother will have gone to jahannum and how she will probably go to jahannum as well.Ask Imaam · 31 Aug 2005
64. is it wrong, if i ask my mother to stay with me, as my dad is very abusive physically and verballyAsk Imaam · 22 Aug 2005
65. Can I talk about Sex on phone with my wife? I got married with her 1 month ago through PROXYAsk Imaam · 18 Aug 2005
66. I have a 10 yr old step daughter. My husbands ex wife is Christain, he and I are both Muslim. The exwife has custody while we have visitation rightsAsk Imaam · 18 Aug 2005
67. child yells at nightAsk Imaam · 12 Aug 2005
68. i am always depressed.i feel that everything is going wrong for me. i was divorced by my husband, without a reconciliationAsk Imaam · 1 Aug 2005
69. considering becoming 2nd wifeAsk Imaam · 25 Jul 2005
70. Should I follow the outcome of my istikhtah or the advice of my elders?Ask Imaam · 22 Jan 2004
71. is it a sin to meet a girl or go on a date with her .whom u love so much ,and will marry soon . after completing studies .and if both parents knows about them ..Ask Imaam · 27 Oct 2003
72. I am 41 years old, very healthy. My doctor told my that due to my age its not possible for me to get pregnant. We are trying for the past 2 years. Please tell me some quarni duasAsk Imaam · 27 Oct 2003
73. I am in love with a pious Muslim girl in my area, and wish to propose to her, but I don’t know how to.Ask Imaam · 27 Oct 2003
74. plz tell me any duaa for my father...health of my father (memory loss) is still persistingAsk Imaam · 27 Oct 2003
75. I was forced to marry a cousin from my native land whom I find repulsive. Is it jaiz if we make a deal that he take another wife and not be allowed to come near meAsk Imaam · 27 Oct 2003
76. My wife does not allow me to speak a word to my mum since married.What should I do as I hoped time with fix issue but not & dont want to violate the rights of my mum & risk the relation with my wifeAsk Imaam · 27 Oct 2003
77. please give me a prayer to recite to always achieve once dreamsAsk Imaam · 27 Oct 2003
78. Is it backbiting when journalists report honestly on the sins(crimes) of politicians ? Considering that they are fighting evil by exposing it to the voting populace.Ask Imaam · 23 Sep 2003
79. How can I explain to a non-muslim why a Muslim women must cover her hair?Ask Imaam · 18 Sep 2003
80. Donor Embryo transplant or the second marriage? I am a 45 years old infertile woman.The chances of having a baby is almost zeroAsk Imaam · 10 Sep 2003
81. I have recently be a victim of sexual harassment. Alhumdulillah it was only an advance that was made. Do I report this to higher authority or leave it in Allah's hands for he is the best judge?Ask Imaam · 9 Sep 2003
82. plzzz tell me any good dua to reconcile with my husband he is very mad at me and don't trust me and want ti give me divorce, i love him too much and wanna live with himAsk Imaam · 9 Sep 2003
83. is divorce an option because my husband ignores me 3 days out of 7Ask Imaam · 9 Sep 2003
84. My husband attitude is not so good to me. He is very easy to get involved in other girls. Please tell me some Dua that my husband love me and respect me more and he do not get involved in other girls.Ask Imaam · 9 Sep 2003
85. Duas found on Duas.org for marriage. I have exhausted every other mean of getting married, excessive dua, salatul hajat every day etc.Ask Imaam · 11 May 2003
86. How should family members treat a sister who married a non-muslim and no longer practices Islam?Ask Imaam · 11 May 2003
87. For istikahara salaat I never knew that you should not depend on your dreams 100%. Can you give me a list of the daily dhikr that we should do and include one for depression?Ask Imaam · 11 May 2003
88. Is it permissible to read certain books? Should I keep away from certain people, or give them Dawah?Ask Imaam · 7 May 2003
89. Is there any advise or help you can offer to me to help my skin conditions better?Ask Imaam · 7 May 2003
90. What are the actual affects of watchin pornographic movies & picturesAsk Imaam · 7 May 2003
91. I’m a 12 yr old girl and I like this boy who has one parent who is Muslim and one who isn’t. I what shall I do?Ask Imaam · 30 Apr 2003
92. i want a baby...i have only been married for few months now, and still young,and also i want to complete my education.Ask Imaam · 21 Apr 2003
93. Is it allowed for girls to go to university and receive higher educationAsk Imaam · 21 Apr 2003
94. Girls and Boys relationships...I have never clearly understood how I should conduct myself around girls my age. I live in BritainAsk Imaam · 21 Apr 2003
95. I have been blessed with 2 children now and from the time I was single up to now I think that my emaan is getting weaker and weaker.Pls advise me on what to do and make du'a for meAsk Imaam · 16 Apr 2003
96. My husband always hates me in all he says others women r good I am bad by god’s grace I am good house wife and house work and mother some time I do out side work also as he says still he hates meAsk Imaam · 16 Apr 2003
97. My mother is always getting the blame for something she did not do, she is trying to make everything better for her children and the family ...Ask Imaam · 9 Apr 2003
98. Are the women allowed to go the universities that is prevailed for education at this point of time where there is co-education and intermingling and there are male teachers?Ask Imaam · 9 Apr 2003
99. i have pain in my vagina, in the morning i have blood in my underwear. plz say a duwa which can help me/medicineAsk Imaam · 4 Apr 2003
100. We feel it would be better to leave them in their home country, as my parents-in-laws’ constant fights and arguments may cause our children to feel upset. Your assistance will be appreciated...Ask Imaam · 17 Mar 2003
101. What will happen if i ever get infected ? Will my parents duas work for me ? Or whatvever is in my taqdeer will happen. I have read all your answers related to Taqdeer , Destiny.Ask Imaam · 16 Mar 2003