Fantasizing about spouse

· 29 Shawwal 1433 AH1 min readFatwa 22360English

Question

Assalaam o Alaikum wrwb,

Respected Mufti Sahab,

I have a question. After nikah and before rukhsati, is it permissible to fantasize about one's spouse not with the intention of masturbation but just to imagine a pleasant life and to reduce the anxiety and nervousness about marital relation?

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Answer

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.

It is permissible after Nikaah.

Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.

Checked & approved by
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
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