Can I marry someone my mother don't approve of because the man was previously married?

Published as Marrying a person whom one's parents do not approve of

· 24 Rabiʻ II 1435 AH1 min readEnglish

Question

Can I marry someone my mother don't approve of because the man was previously married? Is it wrong to still marry him?

Answer

A marriage should secure barkat and blessings, and generally blessings and barkat is acquired when we listen to our elders, especially our parents.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

Answered by
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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